Ok
I am not fine.
The past few days and weeks have been SHIT SHIT
SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Personal trials, professional tests, parenting issues- EVERYTHING.
I am not going to keep pretending I am ok it’s not profiting
me in any way. I cry at the sight of leaves falling, small things and big
things too. I have mentioned before that I may or may not be depressed I don’t
think I could deal with an actual diagnosis and quite frankly one doesn’t need
an educated professional in a white trench-coat , a couch and an office full of
fake flowers to know that self-diagnosis and Dr. Google are the key to all life’s
ugly mysteries.
Things overtake and swallow me sometimes and I can
only focus on a small spectrum of things.
It’s survival mode;
- · 5am Wake
- · Pray
- · Bath
- · Coffee
- · Work
- · Pray
- · More coffee
- · 3l of water a day and try to remember to eat
- · Work
- · Go home
- · Pray
- · Do homework
- · Do a quality activity with my child
- · Make supper
- · Eat
- · Bath
- · Pray
- · Surrender to Insomnia peppered with exhaustion
- · Try to read ANYTHING
- · 3am (if I’m lucky) knock out
(Watermark yourself some Nemesis throughout all the
activities on a daily and note that all the praying may be likened to a mad woman walking around muttering to herself, maybe I do actually talk to myself and no one hears me)
But this is life, you cruise on auto pilot -everything
becoming a knee-jerk action that bears no meaning and is as mundane as it is
necessary. Nothing seems to change and nothing you seem to try to do changes
anything. The things you love doing do not incite any feelings of joy or
accomplishment. Everyone is just so used to seeing you being so strong and
holding your head up high when you feel like you are going to spontaneously
combust the next time anyone dares say hi and how are you. Plenty of times I have
had someone as that and find myself snorting back, do you want the truth or
would you just like a generic make-you-feel-like-you’ve-done-humanity-a-favour-by-asking-gratuitous-type-answer?
I wish someone…anyone would actually give a damn. I believe I am becoming quite
dehydrated from all the crying. What is saddening too is this whole adage about
a trouble shared being a trouble halved.
Ain’t nobody about that crap! Just cut it
I have a simple policy, no need to trouble anyone
with my troubles if there isn’t a damn thing they can do about it. No need
having a whole battalion of people joining in the sleeplessness I shoulder
daily as if it will help me with my quotas.
Equally depressing is the fact that through all
this I long so badly for the one person who knows everything to be more…I don’t
know what more I expect or want him to see that I need him to be. I am all
talked out and there is nothing I can see that can silver-line these clouds,
they have deep ominous forbidding shadows and only the eerie piercing beauty of
a lightning bolt periodically slithers through illuminating and devastating in
one fell swoop.
PA!
Just as suddenly as lightning strikes the cliff edge between
ecstatic and suicidal becoming blurred in the fog of one drama unrelentlessly
beating down on me just as I start to see any glimmer of hope (This Is Me) coming through
the dark tinted greyness of this abyss….
What is hope anyway? Who does it belong to? What do
you need to have done to deserve it. Haven’t I paid penance enough in my short
lifetime to have suffered for the sins of even ancestors that walked this
continent long before my time? No matter how much scripture, motivational
writings and quotes I digest I see no point to it.
Do you know
why you I am here?
Why I keep going from one disaster and train-smashing
into the next, almost actively seeking out things to knock me down and slowly
press any joy at existing out of my stubborn life source, making my lungs gasp
for air they have no joy at receiving since there is no point to anything.
Even this whole blog thing, I am too tired of life
to actually put as much heart into it as I would love to. Hey…if I am not
talking about Nemesis
and his sexual prowess who gives a damn right? No matter. We all
have problems nothing special about mine, right? Even the good loving I got
this weekend is set in almost stone old pallor right now, I feel zero motivation
to do anything except work…auto pilot on and Anthony Hamilton in my ears. Look for
the song listen to it, put it on repeat and pretend the world actually cares
DEAR LIFE
Early was
the morn', flowers filled with dew
I became somebody through lovin' you
softly as a child born in natural rain
I predict the seasons to go unchanged
I became somebody through lovin' you
softly as a child born in natural rain
I predict the seasons to go unchanged
Sometimes in
life you run across a love unknown
Without a reason it seems like you belong
Hold on dear life, don't go off runnin' from what's new
I became somebody through lovin' you
Without a reason it seems like you belong
Hold on dear life, don't go off runnin' from what's new
I became somebody through lovin' you
Warm was the
sun that covered my body so
Reminded me of you as I'd first known
Those were the days, the days that changed my life
And made me new, I became somebody through lovin' you
Reminded me of you as I'd first known
Those were the days, the days that changed my life
And made me new, I became somebody through lovin' you
Sometimes in
life you run across a love unknown
Without a reason it feels like you belong
Hold on dear life, don't go off runnin' from what's new
I became somebody through lovin' you
Without a reason it feels like you belong
Hold on dear life, don't go off runnin' from what's new
I became somebody through lovin' you
As the sun
shine down on me
I know with you and love is where I wanna be
Oh, sometime I go on through life
Thinking that love is something that's not meant for me
Woah, somebody, somebody
I know with you and love is where I wanna be
Oh, sometime I go on through life
Thinking that love is something that's not meant for me
Woah, somebody, somebody
Hold on dear
life, don't go off runnin' from what's new
I became somebody through lovin' you
I became somebody through lovin' you
Oh, I became somebody through lovin' you, oh, oh, ooh
I became somebody through lovin' you
I became somebody through lovin' you
Oh, I became somebody through lovin' you, oh, oh, ooh
Songwriters
HAMILTON, ANTHONY CORNELIUS / ETIENNE, JUNOD
HAMILTON, ANTHONY CORNELIUS / ETIENNE, JUNOD
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Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, RESERVOIR MEDIA MUSIC, RESERVOIR MEDIA MUSIC OBO JUNOD ETIENNE PUB. DESIGNEE
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, RESERVOIR MEDIA MUSIC, RESERVOIR MEDIA MUSIC OBO JUNOD ETIENNE PUB. DESIGNEE
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